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Relationship Issues and People Pleasing Therapy & Coaching for Neurodivergent Women

Online Therapy available in CT and NC | Virtual coaching available worldwide

When they’re messy, complicated, and weighing you down.

Your whole life is spent connected to other people. Those connections used to serve you. (Sometimes? Maybe? You can’t remember anymore.)

 

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The roles you fill in your life—partner, mother, professional, friend, daughter—have become your whole identity.

Your relationships feel strained and the resentment is building up inside.

You’re always fighting with your spouse, or you care more about your friends than they do about you.

You please others at your own expense. You give and give and give…but never receive.

You struggle with:

  • Co-dependency
  • Being taken advantage of
  • People-pleasing
  • Navigating a break-up
  • Boundaries that were crossed, disrespected, or misunderstood
  • Inability to say “no” or letting a relationship go
  • Feeling drained by the people who are supposed to uplift you

 

You want more from your life and connections with others. You know it doesn’t have to be like this. And guess what? You’re right.

Therapy & coaching for relationships can help.

Imagine a life where you know yourself fully. 

You aren’t afraid to speak up and can hold your boundaries without fear. 

Imagine a life where you’re able to show up 100% for your family, friends, and at work because you make time to take care of yourself first. 

Your relationships feel balanced and you don’t have to walk on eggshells around others.

 

That life is waiting for you.

Meet Your Therapist/Coach:
Erica Cuni.

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Certified Integrative Mental Health Professional
Trauma-Informed Burnout Recovery Expert
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
ACTING CLINICAL DIRECTOR
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Hi, I’m Erica Cuni, LMFT, CIMPH. A licensed therapist, trauma-informed coach, and neurodivergent woman who’s been there, survived burnout (and a Mack truck), and turned recovery into a roadmap for others. Now I help high-achieving women and professionals recover from chronic stress, anxiety, perfectionism, and burnout by working with your brain, not against it.

As a clinical director and trauma-trained therapist with nearly 20 years of experience, I integrate research-backed, nervous-system-based approaches that help you feel the shift, not just talk about it. My journey spans multiple systems of care, from private practice to medical detox, the Department of Veterans Affairs, public schools, juvenile justice, psychiatric outpatient clinics, corrections, and beyond. I was also a Clinical Professor and Adjunct Lecturer, so when I call myself the Burnout Professor, you know I mean it.

Today, I bring all of that experience to clients ready to reclaim their nervous system, rebuild self-trust, and live from a grounded, healed place.

Building Relationships That Fulfill You

My approach is integrative, considering all of what makes you, you. This is more than talk therapy. Your concerns are prioritized and centered. You are reconnected to your body and able to listen to it. 

It’s work. That’s why this approach doesn’t shy away from the messy, the complicated, the hard-to-explain. But I will strive to help you experience stronger relationships with others and reconnect with those who serve you.

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Connection starts on the inside.

Client Testimonials

 “My gratitude for Erica cannot be put into words. Human language is simply not adequate enough to express how I feel about the work that she has put into helping me become a better person. I feel like I am sitting with a life-long friend when I meet with Erica. She personifies empathy and caring for her clients.”

“Although Erica is a traditionally trained therapist, she does not provide ‘talk therapy.’  She provides so much more with her cutting edge approach. Working with her has changed my life in ways that I continue to see long after we ended our time together.”

“I now know the meaning of self-love and gratitude, that no matter what happens to me, it is for my greatest good. I wish I could put into words how blessed I feel to have worked with Erica. She has given me a new perspective on myself and in my life.”

 “Working with Erica has changed my life beyond what I can put into words. She is empowering, caring, and respectful, while at the same time has made me be uncomfortably reflective in order to become my best self.”

FAQs

What is online therapy or distance counseling?

Online therapy, also known as distance counseling or Telehealth, is the practice of providing therapy services via email, telephone, video or other electronic means. Most often, sessions are conducted over phone or video. Distance counseling is appropriate for addressing most issues and can make counseling more accessible to those who have trouble making in-office appointments. 

Distance counseling is not appropriate for everyone. Those who are in severe crisis, or who are actively contemplating suicide would not be best helped by distance counseling and should seek a therapist locally. If these concerns every arise during the course of our work, we will have an emergency plan in place to connect you with local resources

What you say in therapy, your records, and even your attendance are confidential. Confidentiality is a key element of what makes therapy work. You have the right to a safe and confidential therapy experience.

However, there are some exceptions:

  • When you give written permission to release information,
  • When your records are subpoenaed for legal reasons,
  • When reporting is required or allowed by law (example: child abuse or neglect, extreme danger to self, elder abuse, danger to others, or viewing or possession of child pornography)
Will I be given a diagnosis?

It is within your right to decline a diagnosis. Diagnoses will only be provided for the purposes of submitting reimbursement claims to your healthcare insurance provider at your request. Any diagnoses will be discussed between client and therapist for the purpose of treatment planning and referrals to appropriate providers. 

When submitting information to an insurance company, the insurance company – not you – decides how many sessions are appropriate for your treatment and the length of those sessions. Private information shared with your insurance company may be stored in the Medical Information Bureau where it can be accessed in the future by other parties such as life insurance companies.

How long does weekly therapy take?

How long therapy will take is influenced by many factors including: your schedule; therapists availability; ongoing life challenges; specific nature and acuity of your specific challenges; and engagement in the therapy process between sessions. The research suggests that most therapy clients feel clinically significant improvement in 12 – 15 sessions and I would expect the same for us. Some clients feel better enough that they graduate within that time. Others find that they enjoy the process of therapy and want to continue. My goal is to help you meet your goals as soon as possible.

What can I expect?

The first step is finding the right therapist. I offer a free phone or video consultation so you can decide if I would be a good fit, and we can explore how I might be able to help you. During the first few sessions we will talk the struggles that bring you to therapy and define your goals. We will then work together to help you achieve those goals. Sometimes things can seem worse before they get better as you try new ways of approaching problems. Being open to new ideas and trying new things will likely improve the outcome.

Are you able to see me if I am outside of NC or CT?

Due to licensing laws I am only able to work with clients located in CT or NC during the time of services.

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Proudly providing virtual Life Coaching, in-person therapy in Raleigh, NC and online therapy across North Carolina and Connecticut.

Erica Cuni, LMFT, CIMHP is a results-driven mental health expert who specializes in going beyond traditional therapy and working with the go-getters, overthinkers, and people-pleasers who are motivated to evolve from perfectionism, overwhelm & burnout, self-esteem or women’s issues.

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